eleven things to eleven LJ friends meme

[rdfreak]

This meme (which is meant to say 10 things annonymously about my LJ list) has eleven statements for eleven people on it. I may confirm, deny or otherwise any presumptions in comments! Lol but here's my message to eleven of my neutral LJ friends:

1. Interesting confessions we made to each other's posts there! since they're not the same though I am wondering how they'd work?! Lol Well, I guess you know I think you're pretty cool, even though you don't remember me from camp in 93 (heh. hardly anyone does. am not quite sure what to make of that. But then, I was pretty shy back then! :)
2. You know, I am pretty glad we're back on track as friends again. Even though we talk a bit, it's not enough me feels but at any rate, I'd like to catch up with you soon! Likewise you're cool even though you are the second one on me LJ list who didn't remember me from camp 93! Lol
3. I'm glad you don't wanna lose touch with me! I kind of worried you'd lost interest, Lol sorry if that sounded corney! but we definitely got to catch up soon, as we've discussed!
4. We've been meaning to meet up for ages! maybe it'll be this year?! :)
5. We don't talk nearly enough now! but you are an inspiration to all blind mothers! your dedication is to be admired! Will always love ya Gal! :)
6. You and I have had a very patchy friendship - off and on - up and down like a blinkin yoyo! Maybe we'll both get it together! who knows?! :)
7. We kind of drifted a tad after U.K. but again I totally enjoyed staying with you and am so glad we're talking again! You better come over here for my 30th else your life won't be worth living! Lol hahaha
8. I wish we could talk more. as I've said a few times, you need to get msn. and I think we should sooo meet one day! You and I do have some similarities and I think we'd get along pretty well in person!
9. if you and I were closer and/or met up, I reckon we'd find we''d be close friends. but you are very quiet and shy on skype and VT and all that! Lol
10. I hope we meet some day! you and I have so many memories of when we first started talking on VT! that was crazy!
11. I'm so glad we now understand each other lil sis, and maybe we will actually talk soon! :) remember chickie, you're always welcome! :)

Comments

[canadian-diva.livejournal.com]

9. if you and I were closer and/or met up, I reckon we'd find we''d be close friends. but you are very quiet and shy on skype and VT and all that!
is that me? lol

[rdfreak.livejournal.com]

my gosh gal! you've got it! that's sooo cool! :) Lol hahahaha *hugs*

[canadian-diva.livejournal.com]

hahaha wow!! I'm good!! lol. I dunno why I'm so quiet on vt, shy I guess. I just never felt very welcome there I guess and I just have this strange idea that people on there don't like me very much, or that I don't really fit in or something. so I tend to just go on there for a few minutes, add the odd bit of conversation in here and there if there's someone I know on, or just sit and listen, get bored with the conversation and leave. that's most times how it is. and skype...I'm nervous to call you!! which is so not right, I should call you sometime cuz I reckon we'd be close friends too, you're cool!!! really cool!!!!

[rdfreak.livejournal.com]

ah thanks girl! that's nice of ya! .. nah don't be nervous to call lil old me! I'm harmless, really! Lol! but seriously I know what ya mean! I get nervous myself calling and skyping people - another similarity I guess! It's definitely a very annoyiny factor. If yours is to the extent mine is, it's actually called social Fobia, (they were talking about it on oprah once and it was totally same symtoms as me).

[rdfreak.livejournal.com]

*grr didn't finish what I was saying there! yep so that was on Oprah once. but yeah like I say do call me. if I don't answer I'll definitely get back to ya! sometimes I'm doing something when skype goes and don't answer but it's nothing against ya! :) and about ventrilo, I hardly go on there any more myself. I pick the people carefully! but honestly some people are just full of themselves so don't let them get to you! you've got as much right to be there as they do! Rock on! :)

[canadian-diva.livejournal.com]

hmmmm, what else did it say? sounds like me too. I think half the reason I don't call people I don't know well is cuz I'm afraid I won't be able to hold the conversation and they'll feel uncomfortable with the silence and so will I and yeah it'll be awkward

[rdfreak.livejournal.com]

my gosh CD, that is totally me too! so it's half my fault as well I guess, Lol (not that I was holding you in any blame or anything :) but yeah! ah nah don't worry. silences are always going to happen so I'm not put off by them! but, I mean we can both just be our little silent selves together! Lol j/k! .. well, oprah just really had people on who had the same problems with phone calls and stuff, and some also use to feel really nervous and embarrassed about going to certain places (which use to be totally me). like, say I was told to go to another classroom to run a message at school, I'd be totally nervous, thinking "everyone will be looking at me, wondering what on earth I'm doing there", that kind of thing, you know? I'm sure we could talk more about this at some point, ha ha! :)

[canadian-diva.livejournal.com]

hmmm yah, we definitely need to talk about this on skype sometime. I'm nervous about social situations too, cuz I find it really hard to just go up to people and start talking to them, and I don't like big crowds cuz I usually end up just sitting there and waiting for people to come talk to me, and it feels really awkward. and I'm always nervous to make calls especially if I have to find out information, I'm always afraid I'm gonna ask the wrong questions or I'm not gonna think of enough questions to ask or I'm gonna do something wrong or something.