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sugar84 and myself were discussing whether love is the same as obsession as far as people are concerned. I was telling her that I had learnt that it was different, but it took me a while to figure it out. It took me a while to figure out that in liking the women in my life I didn't exactly know them intimately yet I said I did. So I had to create immages in my poor little head to couteract not knowing them really, as much as I'd wanted too. So, while I believed that I "loved" them, it was not the case, but they were still on my mind 24/7 .. so .. I matured a little and loved a little, I mean .. really. .. I know there's a difference.

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oh dear .. am so sorry bout that. I couldn't figure out how to make the max length of characters bigger. *grrrr I use to be able to do it but .. yeah .. and unfortunately one can't edit poles :( but .. thanks for your say. that is sooo true. I didn't even really think of it like that.
I asked because I think in some cases they can overlap. but yes, obsession, though can't be helped in the majority of cases (from my experiences anyway) is selfish.
sorry again bout that. guess everyone else is going to have the same problem. :( *grrrr <33