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rdfreak ([personal profile] rdfreak) wrote2004-10-22 06:26 pm

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OK before [livejournal.com profile] sugar84 and myself were discussing whether love is the same as obsession as far as people are concerned. I was telling her that I had learnt that it was different, but it took me a while to figure it out. It took me a while to figure out that in liking the women in my life I didn't exactly know them intimately yet I said I did. So I had to create immages in my poor little head to couteract not knowing them really, as much as I'd wanted too. So, while I believed that I "loved" them, it was not the case, but they were still on my mind 24/7 .. so .. I matured a little and loved a little, I mean .. really. .. I know there's a difference.


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[identity profile] nickibooh.livejournal.com 2004-10-23 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I did that stupid thing in the pole to so if it doesn't make sense thats why. lolo. anyways, love is something that matures over time and you learn to grow with a person and learn about each other. obsession is totally different it's just liking someone usually based on little information, hell you don't even have to meet someone to be obsessed with them, love is about knowing and excepting someone for just who they are. *smile*